Power in Forgiveness: A Reflection on Unity in the Church
Scripture Focus: Matthew 18:21-22 (NASB 1995)
Forgiveness is one of the most challenging commands in Scripture, yet it is central to the unity and mission of the church. In Matthew 18:21-22, Peter asks Jesus how often he should forgive a brother who sins against him. Jesus’ answer — “seventy times seven” — highlights the boundless nature of forgiveness that should characterize God’s people.
To understand forgiveness’s transformative power, let’s explore three key principles: restoration through forgiveness, the role of forgiveness in effective prayer, and the necessity of forgiveness to maintain the power of the Holy Spirit.
1. Forgiveness Leads to Restoration
Jesus provides a clear model for restoring relationships in Matthew 18:15-17. The goal is always restoration, not retribution. When we confront someone about their wrongdoing, it must be in a spirit of grace and prayerful hope for reconciliation. As believers, our attitude should reflect the forgiveness we have received from God (Matthew 18:21-22).
Restoration is not guaranteed by the other person’s response. They may not repent or acknowledge their wrongdoing. However, our role is to forgive regardless, maintaining a heart free from bitterness. Forgiveness mirrors God’s heart, and it empowers the church to live in unity and purpose. This unity enables the church to “shake the world for Jesus” (Acts 17:6).
2. Forgive so that Prayers are not Hindered
Mark 11:25 reminds us, “Whenever you stand praying, forgive.” Forgiveness is critical for effective prayer because harboring unforgiveness creates a spiritual barrier. John R. Rice wrote, “Every Christian who tries to pray with unforgiveness in his heart finds a great wall of his sins piled up between him and God.” Unforgiveness disrupts our communion with God and grieves the Holy Spirit.
The early church demonstrates the power of unified prayer. They prayed together in one accord (Acts 1:14), experienced the Holy Spirit’s outpouring at Pentecost (Acts 2:1-4), and witnessed miracles like Peter’s release from prison (Acts 12:5-7). If forgiveness is absent, how can we expect the same power in our prayers?
Forgiveness is a fruit of genuine faith. It reflects the gospel and demonstrates that we understand the forgiveness we’ve received from Christ. To pray effectively and maintain unity, forgiveness must be a regular practice.
3. Forgive to Avoid Grieving the Holy Spirit
Ephesians 4:30-32 exhorts believers not to grieve the Holy Spirit. Unforgiveness, bitterness, and malice hinder the Spirit’s work in our lives and within the church. When we forgive, the Holy Spirit’s power flows freely, enabling us to live out God’s purposes with love, joy, and peace.
The early church, though imperfect, was empowered by the Spirit because they prioritized unity and forgiveness. Forgiveness releases us from anger and resentment, making space for God’s grace to work through us. We forgive each other because we have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). This truth transforms not only our relationships but also our witness to the world.
Conclusion
Forgiveness is not optional for the believer. It is commanded in God’s Word and empowered by His Spirit. We forgive because God forgave us first. As Matthew 18:21-22 reminds us, forgiveness is limitless, just as God’s grace toward us is limitless.
Take a moment to reflect: Who do you need to forgive today? Though it may be difficult, the Holy Spirit empowers us to fulfill God’s command. Forgiveness leads to restoration, effective prayer, and spiritual vitality. Through it, we experience the unity and power God desires for His church.
Let us pray, forgive, and witness the transformative power of God’s grace in our lives and communities.